ARE YOU DATING A PERSON WITH A BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER? STRESSED, FED UP, EXHAUSTED...MAYBE!
DO YOU RECOGNIZE THE PERSON BELOW, IF SO RUN DON'T WALK! KNOW WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN A BORDERLINE PERSONALITY TYPE?
Abusive personality who tries to isolate you from family and friends, wants you to love or give attention to only them. Seductive to lure you in and then become controlling and critical. They are often sexually promiscuous and can desire crude and sexual acts. Manipulative, can convince and persuade others they are normal and that you are the problem in the relationship. Borderlines can be sweet then without provocation switch to being verbally and even physically abusive. Lack accountability by blaming others for their behaviors; "If you had done what I told you then I would not have hit you". Deceitful in their representation of themselves, present one way publicly but behind closed doors ~they transform into monstrous beings you feel like you don't recognize. Paranoid, will accuse you of having affairs or caring for others more than you do for them, even if that relationship was many years before them, sometimes even accusing you of flirting with strangers. Explosive tantrums, threatens self harm or threatens to harm you if you leave them. Poor relationship with their mother and/or father. Abusive, and have witnessed abuse or have been abused as children.
If you are with this person and they threaten to leave you, please let them go. Start your life over and never share with them where you have gone and don't post it on social media because they are always trolling to see what you are doing.